Look Who's Got Happy Feet!

Today a Secret Santa package arrived for the Pickle from my sweet online friend Shannon. He was SO thrilled to see "MumMum" aka Mumble Happy Feet. For those who don't know, the character of Mumble is hearing impaired; how fitting for our family. Pickle hasn't seen the movie yet,but we've played his bit from the Build-A-Bear website and the sound clips of the soundtrack from Amazon literally dozens of times for him and he's over-joyed every time. Needless to say, Santa knows how much Pickle would love the soundtrack for Christmas and will take care of it. And considering that Pickle doesn't talk, if I had a nickle for every time he said, "MumMum" after opening the package tonight, I could retire! :-)

Lemonade in Holland
We all know that expression, "If life hands you lemons..." And just because we wish for limes instead, we have to take what we're given even if a Margarita does sound more appealing than lemonade sometimes.
Lately, my family and a few of my friends as well have been handed some lemons for our children. Wait, we didn't ask for lemondade. Our kids didn't ask for lemonade. However, as their parents, it's our job to make the best lemonade that we know how to make. My hat is off to all of you, who like us, do your best every day and some day our children will all be wearing blue ribbons!
Like being given a fruit you didn't ask for, you also find that you're taking a trip you didn't plan for. Once you arrive and the shock wears off, hopefully you learn that your destination, like the lemonade is worth everything you gave up.

WELCOME TO HOLLAND
by Emily Perl Kingsley.
c1987 by Emily Perl Kingsley. All rights reserved

I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......
When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.
After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."
"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."
But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.
The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.
So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.
It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for a while and you catch your breath, you look around.... and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills....and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.
But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."
And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away... because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss.
But... if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.

Good Luck Dawn!

I just want to take a moment to wish you well tomorrow. I know everything will go smoothly for you. Rest up m'dear. Lots of hugs and good wishes coming your way from the Rockies!